Hakim has a crush on someone, and he won't say who.
haha, so kid-like ^^
His partial confession got me thinking though, what are the qualities
I'd like present in a guy for me to be attracted to him?
Personally, i don't really make a big deal about how a person looks like, or even dresses really. So long you're neat and clean, it's perfectly fine with me.
Really, when it comes right down to it, i think an intelligent, and masculine man would be very attractive. Possibly someone charismatic and debonair as well.
haha, wishful thinking of a 16 year
old, in the dead of the night. How childish really, dreaming up the perfect man.
Why do we make such a big deal about finding life partners and marriage? Why this eternal search and longing for companionship? Are we truly incapable of being alone? Is true
Independence only a myth, and not a reality?
From a very young age, we have been taught, a man and a woman must fall in love, and marry each other, and thus live happily ever after till one day, one of them dies, and the other lives on somehow.
In the end, what you'll get is two aging bodies rotting underground. But that's not a pretty picture to paint, so let's just skip that.
What about hose people who never do find their partners? Or people who's sexual orientation isn't what society would prefer to be. Can they help it? And what about that innate sense of loneliness all human beings experience, won't it be harder for them?
I think, the idea of relationship, marriage, commitment, it's too inflexible. Too rigid. Nothing ends happily.
Having said that, i still dream of that perfect man, who strongly resembles Hakim, only, with a different face. Hakim is very, very charismatic, don't you think?
